Starting off the week with another GRWM, wore this Starting off the week with another GRWM, wore this for #galentinesday shoot with my girls (cannot wait to share our photos with y’all tmrw)

Linked my entire look & similar lower priced options via my SHOP page. See my bio for the link.

Dress @gauge81_ 
Shoes @stuartweitzman 
Earrings @alessandrarich 
Bag @cultgaia 

#titispassion #atlantablogger #atlantainfluencer #grwmreel #galentinesdayoutfit #blackgirlluxury
Hi 👋🏾 as promised, I am starting a Travel Se Hi 👋🏾 as promised, I am starting a Travel Series with the city I get the most questions about Paris 🇫🇷There is ALOT to do here & today’s post is an intro to other detailed reels coming(where to stay, where to shop, etc 

Don’t forget to LIKE, SAVE & SHARE. If you’ve ever been to Paris, don’t hold back. Share your tips below 👇🏾 
5 THINGS TO DO 
-Make reservations to a restaurant with a view. It’s a great way to see the city.
-Go to museum or 2! There are lots of museum options in Paris, Lourve, Musee d’Orsay are 2 of my faves. Fashion lovers there are also museums for you like La Galerie Dior.
-Go shopping! You can save up to 30% off on luxury brands (dedicating a reel to this topic) & vintage shop too!
- Visit outside of Paris (even if it’s for half a day)
Versailles is just about 45mins away.
-Visit Disneyland Paris!
Especially if you’re traveling with your littles, it’s worth the train ride (more travel tips with kids 🔜)
#titispassiontravels #titispassion #paristravelguide
Swipe 👈🏾left for throwback pics from over 15 Swipe 👈🏾left for throwback pics from over 15yrs ago.

 It’s the month of love and no where screams ❤️ ( perfectly marketed anyways) love like Paris 
IMO, Paris isn’t just for lovers, it’s for art lovers, history buffs, foodies, shoppers & more! 

Story time:
My love for Paris started in college the semester I took a western civilization class. So in the year 2006 about 2+ years after we started dating I mentioned to @fotosbyfola that I planned on visiting London & Paris in the fall. He had never been to either of the countries so he said sure why not!

We purchased our tickets & planned to spend 2 nites in Paris (cos that’s what we could afford 😀) & we spent the rest of our week long trip in London at my sister’s.

We took the Eurostar to Paris & stayed at Hotel de Flore (our room was so tiny😂) We spent our money on museums vists, tourist attractions & lots of croissants. We got lost a few times, ran into communication issues with locals (no app translating apps back then) froze our asses off cos November but honestly I left with my heart FULL. 

Maybe that’s why I keep coming back here 🤷🏾‍♀️ Our travel adventure started here over 16yrs ago😊 Stay tuned for a new Travel Series starting tmrw. 

Red dress is via @andotherstories 
Boots @tamaramellon 
#titispassion #titispassiontravels
👋🏾 Get Ready With Me Sharing #howistyledthi 👋🏾 Get Ready With Me 
Sharing #howistyledthis under $75 (it’s on sale for $62) dress from @shopbop with items I already had in my closet. 

I wanted to share a simple, chic & sexy dress perfect for a night out including Valentines Day.
I linked the dress & accessories in my SHOP page (see my bio) including my accessories. 

Do you like the look, let me know in the comments section👇🏾 #titispassion #valentinesdayinspo
In case you need any other reasons to add Thailand In case you need any other reasons to add Thailand to you #travelbucketlist here is ☝🏾 

This was shot at one of the villas @fskohsamui my amazing host when I was in #kohsamui Thailand. #fskohsamui 

The views here are just our of this world!See my Thailand Highlight for more!  #titispassion #titispassiontravels #atlantablogger #atlantainfluencer
Hey y’all, if you’re looking for a quick getaw Hey y’all, if you’re looking for a quick getaway (2hour flight from ATL via @delta The Abacos has all of these and more to offer. I got to explore this beautiful part of The Bahamas 🇧🇸 thanks to @visitthebahamas

On the blog today, I am sharing everything you need to know before visiting. 
-Currency is one to one. The US Dollar is accepted everywhere.
-There are no big resorts here but the options available are fantastic we stayed @the_bahamas_beach_club & @abacobeachresort (highly recommend both)
-The people are super friendly, food is great! 
-Engage with nature (top beaches) & experience encounters such as feeding stingrays, pigs and more with @abacowatersports 

See the link in my bio for the blog post on www.titispassion.com
Save & Share with your travel buddies & follow me for more  travel tips❤️

#titispassion #titispassiontravels #abacoislands #visitthebahamas #islandtime #travelreelsoninstagram
The most underused service when you book a 4 or 5 The most underused service when you book a 4 or 5 star ⭐️ Hotel/Resort is concierge service. 
All the tips listed are accessible via concierge and you DON’T have to pay extra for some of the services. Worth reading 👇🏾

-Airport Concierge Service
(Someone meeting you at your arrival gate) I have used this service a few times and let’s just say it’s a game changer! No more lifting baggages, faster passport control, no getting lost in a new airport.
-Prebook your Airport ride
This ensures a swift departure from the airport. You don’t have to walk about waiting on rideshare or sometimes sketchy taxi stands.
-Use Hotel Concierge to book taxis vs rideshare.
As much as I like rideshare service & it’s flexibility I have had quite a few bad experiences from drivers taking longer route to straight up scary situations. Taxis are vetted & oftentimes work with hotel to ensure you have a pleasant experience.
-Let your Hotel know in advance that you’re there to celebrate a special occasion. Room upgrades, champagne, etc for FREE are some of what you’re missing out on!
-Let Concierge handle dinner reservations, arrange excursions & score tickets to shows in town. Same as above, send an email in advance. 

Save, Like & Share. If you have other tips, please share below 👇🏾 
#titispassion #titispassiontravels #atlantablogger #atlantainfluencer #traveltips #airporttravel #travelreels
A girl can never have too many pieces of jewelry, A girl can never have too many pieces of jewelry, especially when it comes to @LAGOS_Jewelry I have been raving about them over the last few years for good reason. This Valentine’s Day show your love for someone who is special to you with a gift from LAGOS’ 18K gold, sterling silver, and diamond Caviar Lux collection. 
Head to stories now to see and shop these pieces for your loved ones or yourself!
#MyLOVEMyWay #MyLAGOSMyWay 

#titispassion #atlantablogger #vdaygiftideas #ltkfinds
Nothing a Goombay smash aka #rumpunch & time at th Nothing a Goombay smash aka #rumpunch & time at the beach 🏝️ can’t cure IMO. Cheers to an amazing & productive week y’all ❤️

FYI. I am currently in cold ass ATL😩 just reminiscing 
Dress @ladyeeboutique 
Sunnies @dior 
Sandals & bag @chanelofficial 

#abaco #abacobahamas #titispassion #titispassiontravels #atlantatravelinfluencer #atlantablogger
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blackhair, hair tips, haircare, natural bun, Natural hair, natural hair care, Uncategorized · October 6, 2016

10 things no one ever told me about going Natural

Hi,

How are you doing? I hope you had a good day? I have been thinking about this post for months now but never got around putting my thoughts to writing (#storyofmylife) For some reason tonight as I looked at one of the images my husband took of me yesterday and saw the progress of my hair, I can’t help but smile and most importantly share this post.

I decided to go natural in 2012 when I found out I was pregnant with my second child (October 2012). My hair stylist had mentioned it in passing but I wasn’t interested. Something about being pregnant encouraged me to give it a “try” I wasn’t going for the big chop, I wanted to transition or in my words “see how my hair does without a relaxer for a while.” I gave it a year in my mind. Below are things I learnt along the way and I am writing this to inspire someone who might be discouraged about her hair progress, someone who isn’t quite sure what to do or maybe someone who already is natural.

You don’t have to do the  “Big Chop”

I am not sure why this is usually the recommended path to natural hair, but honestly you don’t. I didn’t. I gradually transitioned my hair straight ends and all its the current state. Over the last 4 years I have trimmed off the straight ends.


You don’t have to do the work

There seems to be this notion that you have to be a pro at handling your hair to have healthy natural hair. I did buy into that idea for a while and honestly it intimidated me going on Youtube and watching videos of black girls just like me styling their hair perfectly. There are amazing natural hair stylist everywhere, you just have to do a little bit of work to find out one that works for you. Kiss a few frogs maybe and find your prince charming, lol. Styleseat is an amazing resource that you can use and if you live in the Atlanta area, my hair stylist Washonda is amazing. Instagram is also a great place to start, try out those hashtags.


Trims are so important

I was very good with my trims when I had a relaxer in my hair but somehow I convinced myself or thought I could get away with less trims cos I am natural! So wrong, hair sheds period in whatever state it is in, so get frequent trims and honestly I would always advice going to a professional over trying to handle it yourself.


It’s okay to wear my natural hair however way I want 

I am tired of ladies shaming others for not wearing their natural hair as is, hair is personal so whatever you chose to do, do it and own it. Wear your weaves, wear your wigs, crotchet braids, proudly wear your fro, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. It doesn’t make you less natural if you chose to wear corn rolls and don your wig afterwards (but make sure you leave your hair out on occasion, to breathe.)

Heat “can” be the enemy

Like I mentioned in the beginning of this post, I transitioned my hair. I was used to wearing my hair straight for years so straightening my hair every 2 weeks became my ritual. My hair thrived, it grew and not until I announced to anyone in a room or when it rained, lol you could never tell I was natural. I was perfectly fine with that but I noticed the heat took its toll. As my hair started reverting to its natural curly patterns, my ends stayed straight and never reverted. I found that annoying after a while, I wanted my curls but also wanted to wear my hair straight. Too much heat changes that. Using Apple Cider Vinegar to cleanse the hair between straightening curbs this but most importantly limit the heat and watch the temperature. You hair doesn’t need that much heat to get it bone straight in the first place under 400 degrees Fahrenheit for sure)


It doesn’t have to be costly

Honestly I can proudly say I have spent less money on my hair over the last year compared to the past. I never touched my hair when I had a relaxer, so every 2 weeks I was at the salon but now I manage my hair myself most times and go to the salon on occasion. I would say this, once you get the hang of things (this might take some time, took me over 2 years) you can start managing your hair and save money and time spent at the salon.


You don’t have to know about every product

There is this notion that you have to keep trying different products and changing products repeatedly. Leave all that to the Youtubers and bloggers, lol. If you find a product that works for you, stick to it and don’t change products till it stops working which does happen sometimes. Hair changes, adapts and  if you notice it stops working, its the only time I recommend switching products. Just remember the bloggers and Youtube stars have to try new products to let you know what might work cos not everything works for every hair. My daughter and I have different textures and hair products tend to have different effects on our hair.


Return it if it doesn’t work

Its that simple, just like with everything else (If you in live in the US especially, stick to Target, Walmart.)These stores have great return policies, if you try a product that doesn’t work for your hair, please return the rest of the content and get your full refund back. Don’t waste money trying new products and end up being a beauty supply store!

Time makes all the difference

I saw  a picture of one of my favorite natural hair blogger Naturally Temi and I was blown away with the difference in her hair growth in a span of 2 years. Pictures like hers motivates me to continue with my natural hair journey. Ladies hair growth honestly takes time, put in the work and give it time:-)

My hair can’t look that great

I think this is one that strikes a cord the most. People assume that  “”her hair” is different, mine can never look that great”” I had to put that in double quotation. There is this notion that one natural hair is better than the other or the idea that since I can’t have curls like Style Pantry why bother. Embrace your hair as God made it and work on it and get it to the best state that it can possibly become. 

I have so much more to blog regarding this topic, so expect a part 2, “Shrinkage is real, “lol. I finally understand what that means now, lol I hope you enjoyed reading this piece, sharing is caring, hit the share button and send it to someone who would benefit from this. Cheers!

 Products I am using on my hair  Catherine Marion Hair system, it is amazing, see my review here.

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  1. Bukky says

    October 7, 2016 at 2:28 am

    Really informative. Can't wait for the part 2. Thanks for sharing

    Reply
  2. Chic Therapy says

    October 14, 2016 at 6:39 pm

    Wowzer! I had no idea you were natural sa.

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Starting off the week with another GRWM, wore this Starting off the week with another GRWM, wore this for #galentinesday shoot with my girls (cannot wait to share our photos with y’all tmrw)

Linked my entire look & similar lower priced options via my SHOP page. See my bio for the link.

Dress @gauge81_ 
Shoes @stuartweitzman 
Earrings @alessandrarich 
Bag @cultgaia 

#titispassion #atlantablogger #atlantainfluencer #grwmreel #galentinesdayoutfit #blackgirlluxury
Hi 👋🏾 as promised, I am starting a Travel Se Hi 👋🏾 as promised, I am starting a Travel Series with the city I get the most questions about Paris 🇫🇷There is ALOT to do here & today’s post is an intro to other detailed reels coming(where to stay, where to shop, etc 

Don’t forget to LIKE, SAVE & SHARE. If you’ve ever been to Paris, don’t hold back. Share your tips below 👇🏾 
5 THINGS TO DO 
-Make reservations to a restaurant with a view. It’s a great way to see the city.
-Go to museum or 2! There are lots of museum options in Paris, Lourve, Musee d’Orsay are 2 of my faves. Fashion lovers there are also museums for you like La Galerie Dior.
-Go shopping! You can save up to 30% off on luxury brands (dedicating a reel to this topic) & vintage shop too!
- Visit outside of Paris (even if it’s for half a day)
Versailles is just about 45mins away.
-Visit Disneyland Paris!
Especially if you’re traveling with your littles, it’s worth the train ride (more travel tips with kids 🔜)
#titispassiontravels #titispassion #paristravelguide
Swipe 👈🏾left for throwback pics from over 15 Swipe 👈🏾left for throwback pics from over 15yrs ago.

 It’s the month of love and no where screams ❤️ ( perfectly marketed anyways) love like Paris 
IMO, Paris isn’t just for lovers, it’s for art lovers, history buffs, foodies, shoppers & more! 

Story time:
My love for Paris started in college the semester I took a western civilization class. So in the year 2006 about 2+ years after we started dating I mentioned to @fotosbyfola that I planned on visiting London & Paris in the fall. He had never been to either of the countries so he said sure why not!

We purchased our tickets & planned to spend 2 nites in Paris (cos that’s what we could afford 😀) & we spent the rest of our week long trip in London at my sister’s.

We took the Eurostar to Paris & stayed at Hotel de Flore (our room was so tiny😂) We spent our money on museums vists, tourist attractions & lots of croissants. We got lost a few times, ran into communication issues with locals (no app translating apps back then) froze our asses off cos November but honestly I left with my heart FULL. 

Maybe that’s why I keep coming back here 🤷🏾‍♀️ Our travel adventure started here over 16yrs ago😊 Stay tuned for a new Travel Series starting tmrw. 

Red dress is via @andotherstories 
Boots @tamaramellon 
#titispassion #titispassiontravels
👋🏾 Get Ready With Me Sharing #howistyledthi 👋🏾 Get Ready With Me 
Sharing #howistyledthis under $75 (it’s on sale for $62) dress from @shopbop with items I already had in my closet. 

I wanted to share a simple, chic & sexy dress perfect for a night out including Valentines Day.
I linked the dress & accessories in my SHOP page (see my bio) including my accessories. 

Do you like the look, let me know in the comments section👇🏾 #titispassion #valentinesdayinspo
In case you need any other reasons to add Thailand In case you need any other reasons to add Thailand to you #travelbucketlist here is ☝🏾 

This was shot at one of the villas @fskohsamui my amazing host when I was in #kohsamui Thailand. #fskohsamui 

The views here are just our of this world!See my Thailand Highlight for more!  #titispassion #titispassiontravels #atlantablogger #atlantainfluencer
Hey y’all, if you’re looking for a quick getaw Hey y’all, if you’re looking for a quick getaway (2hour flight from ATL via @delta The Abacos has all of these and more to offer. I got to explore this beautiful part of The Bahamas 🇧🇸 thanks to @visitthebahamas

On the blog today, I am sharing everything you need to know before visiting. 
-Currency is one to one. The US Dollar is accepted everywhere.
-There are no big resorts here but the options available are fantastic we stayed @the_bahamas_beach_club & @abacobeachresort (highly recommend both)
-The people are super friendly, food is great! 
-Engage with nature (top beaches) & experience encounters such as feeding stingrays, pigs and more with @abacowatersports 

See the link in my bio for the blog post on www.titispassion.com
Save & Share with your travel buddies & follow me for more  travel tips❤️

#titispassion #titispassiontravels #abacoislands #visitthebahamas #islandtime #travelreelsoninstagram
The most underused service when you book a 4 or 5 The most underused service when you book a 4 or 5 star ⭐️ Hotel/Resort is concierge service. 
All the tips listed are accessible via concierge and you DON’T have to pay extra for some of the services. Worth reading 👇🏾

-Airport Concierge Service
(Someone meeting you at your arrival gate) I have used this service a few times and let’s just say it’s a game changer! No more lifting baggages, faster passport control, no getting lost in a new airport.
-Prebook your Airport ride
This ensures a swift departure from the airport. You don’t have to walk about waiting on rideshare or sometimes sketchy taxi stands.
-Use Hotel Concierge to book taxis vs rideshare.
As much as I like rideshare service & it’s flexibility I have had quite a few bad experiences from drivers taking longer route to straight up scary situations. Taxis are vetted & oftentimes work with hotel to ensure you have a pleasant experience.
-Let your Hotel know in advance that you’re there to celebrate a special occasion. Room upgrades, champagne, etc for FREE are some of what you’re missing out on!
-Let Concierge handle dinner reservations, arrange excursions & score tickets to shows in town. Same as above, send an email in advance. 

Save, Like & Share. If you have other tips, please share below 👇🏾 
#titispassion #titispassiontravels #atlantablogger #atlantainfluencer #traveltips #airporttravel #travelreels
A girl can never have too many pieces of jewelry, A girl can never have too many pieces of jewelry, especially when it comes to @LAGOS_Jewelry I have been raving about them over the last few years for good reason. This Valentine’s Day show your love for someone who is special to you with a gift from LAGOS’ 18K gold, sterling silver, and diamond Caviar Lux collection. 
Head to stories now to see and shop these pieces for your loved ones or yourself!
#MyLOVEMyWay #MyLAGOSMyWay 

#titispassion #atlantablogger #vdaygiftideas #ltkfinds
Nothing a Goombay smash aka #rumpunch & time at th Nothing a Goombay smash aka #rumpunch & time at the beach 🏝️ can’t cure IMO. Cheers to an amazing & productive week y’all ❤️

FYI. I am currently in cold ass ATL😩 just reminiscing 
Dress @ladyeeboutique 
Sunnies @dior 
Sandals & bag @chanelofficial 

#abaco #abacobahamas #titispassion #titispassiontravels #atlantatravelinfluencer #atlantablogger
One minute I was feeding/hanging out with the swim One minute I was feeding/hanging out with the swimming pigs of No Name Cay when this happened😩
(See my stories for the original video)

They were clearly having an argument about something & I wasn’t trying to be a part of their drama but my coverup decided to betray me at that very moment 🤦🏾‍♀️😂
I never share bloopers cos half the time it happens when the camera isn’t on but this was so hilarious I had to share 🤣 

Do share with someone who could use a laugh 😆 
Y’all still go see the pigs though when in Abaco. It’s something fun to do here😀

#titispassiontravels #abacoislands #titispassion #abacobahamas #travelbloppers #travelreels

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